I made it to the last round of interviews for a job, and, as far as I can tell, things went well. Right after the last interview the hiring manager and the team leader were fairly open and told me I made a very good impression but asked me to wait 3 to 4 weeks for their response as there was still another candidate they wanted to interview.
After the fourth week had past and I hadn't heard from them I wrote an email to the manager asking if they knew when they would be making their decision. In his response he told me that they had already made a decision and that HR would get in touch with me. The response was friendly and he implied that I should be expecting good news. (for me and a friend it's the most likely interpretation by the way he worded it)
A week has past and I haven't heard from HR. This position is in the headquarters of a huge company with over 100k employees worldwide so I understand that processes could be slower, but I am growing anxious because 1. I have kept another company waiting for my response and 2. I'm nearing a deadline for an important decision in my current job that would be affected if I knew 100% for sure if I was leaving.
I feel tempted to write an email to the person from HR who I met in the first interview and ask them about a time frame in which I should be expecting the outcome of their decision. However, I don't want to risk making a wrong move since this would be a great career opportunity for me and it's something I've been working for for so long. I wouldn't make mention of my interaction with the manager.
Is it appropriate in this situation to write an email to HR asking about a time frame in which they would get in touch with me about their decision?
Thanks!