If we look at the Hardy inequality in A technical step in proving Hardy's inequality, the answer gets to a point where we almost have the inequality except for a boundary term $\frac{C}{r}\int_{\partial B(0, r)} u^2dS$ and we want to obtain $\frac{C}{r^2}\int_{B(0, r)} u^2dx$.
But I can't see how the two are comparable: if $r = 1$, so that we are comparing $\int_{\partial B} u^2dS$ and $\int_B u^2dx$ where $B$ is the unit ball, then take $u^2$ radial and equal to $u^2(r) = r^\alpha$. Then the first integral is $\omega_{n-1}$, the volume of the $(n-1)$-sphere, since $u^2\rvert_{\partial B} \equiv u^2(1) = 1$, but the second integral is $\omega_{n-1}\int_0^1 r^{\alpha}r^{n-1}dr = \frac{1}{\alpha+n}\omega_{n-1}$ using spherical coordinates/the coarea formula. If $\alpha$ is large enough then there is no constant for which we find $\int_{\partial B} u^2dS \leq C\int_B u^2dx$. What am I missing?