A Poisson variable with parameter $\lambda$ is the number of events occuring in one time unit in a Poisson process with rate $\lambda$. Whenever the $X+Y$ events occurred, since with probability $1$ they occurred at different times, we can form intervals around them containing only one event each. The a priori probability for an interval of length $\mathrm dt$ to contain an event of type $X$ was $\lambda\mathrm dt$, and likewise $\mu\mathrm dt$ for type $Y$. Thus, the posterior probability, given that an event occurred in the interval, that it was of type $X$ is
$$
\frac{\lambda\mathrm dt}{\lambda\mathrm dt+{\mu\mathrm dt}}=\frac\lambda{\lambda+\mu}\;.
$$
Since the probabilities for all intervals in a Poisson process are independent, and $X$ and $Y$ are assumed to be independent, each event is an independent Bernoulli experiment with success probability $\frac\lambda{\lambda+\mu}$, so adding them yields a binomial variable with that success probability.