Let $V$ be a real $n$-dimensional vector space, and let $g,h$ be two inner products on $V$. Fix some $1\le k\le n-1$, and denote by $\text{Gr}_k(V)$ the Grassmannian of $k$-dimensional subspaces of $V$.
Let $\perp_g:\text{Gr}_k(V) \to \text{Gr}_{n-k}(V)$ be the orthogonal complement map operation w.r.t $g$, i.e. $\perp_g(W)=W^\perp$.
Now, suppose that $\perp_g=\perp_h$. Is it true that $g=\lambda h$ for some $\lambda \in \mathbb{R}$?
I guess that the question can be asked more generally, for any two non-degenerate bilinear forms.
One can formulate the question also via linear maps: If $A:(V,g) \to (V,h)$ commutes with taking complements, is it conformal? (Here $A=Id$).
I know that a map which commutes with the Hodge dual operator is conformal, but here we require less.