On Wikipedia it is stated that
points of the form $[x:y:1]$ are the usual real plane and
points of the form $[x:y:0] $ are the line at infinity.
But this choice $z=0$ seems arbitrary to me. The projective space seems pretty symmetric so one might as well say $[0:y:z]$ or $[x:0:z]$ are the line at infinity.
What am I missing? Why is a point at infinity iff $z=0$?
The choice $z=1$ for the real plane seems equally arbitrary. I expect everything but the line at infinity to correspond to the usual real plane.
Again:
What am I missing? Why does $[x:y:z]$ (with $x,y,z\neq 0$) not correspond to a point on the real plane but $[x:y:1]$ does?