You can add the matrices as ASCII Grid file to QGIS, and create contours from the lat and lon values. This will create a degree grid like this:

In this mailing list topic I described how to set up a suitable projection for it:
http://osgeo-org.1560.x6.nabble.com/Have-LCC-center-terms-need-PROJ-4-terms-td5102799.html
EDIT
Sample data can be found in the mailing list thread. The known projection parameters are:
TRULAT1 = 39.338
TRUELAT2 = 39.338
MOAD_CEN_LAT = 39.33799
STAND_LON = -84.
This gives the following proj definition string:
+proj=lcc +lat_1=39.338 +lat_0=39.338 +lon_0=-84 +k_0=1 +x_0=0 +y_0=0 +datum=WGS84 +units=m +no_defs
No ellipsoid is given, so we take WGS84 as default.
The extent information inside the data reads:
north: 1656000
south: 0
east: 1656000
west: 0
rows: 138
cols: 138
which can be transformed to the GDAL-known AAIGrid header:
nrows 138
ncols 138
xllcorner 0
yllcorner 0
cellsize 12000
NODATA_value -32768
To get the x_0 and y_0 values, we take the lower left values from the data (last line,first value): -86.433044 33.062443 into a file ll.txt and convert those to lcc using cs2cs:
cs2cs +init=epsg:4326 +to +proj=lcc +lat_1=39.338 +lat_0=39.338 +lon_0=-84 +k_0=1 +x_0=0 +y_0=0 +datum=WGS84 +units=m +no_defs ll.txt >>lcc84.txt
Resulting to -228512.96 -694637.98 0.00.
Note that the cells are 12km wide, and the cell value is for mid cell. So we have to invert the values and add 6000m to get the real lower left values:
234513. 700638.
so the complete proj string is:
+proj=lcc +lat_1=39.338 +lat_0=39.338 +lon_0=-84 +k_0=1 +x_0=234513 +y_0=700638 +datum=wgs84 +units=m +no_defs
Another approach is to look up the lon_0 value in the xlong table. It is in every line at column 20. So the x_0 is 19.5 * 12000 = 234000. Looking for lat_0 in the xlat table at the same column returns row 59 from the bottom, so the correct y_0 value is 58.5 * 12000 = 702000. The improved proj string is:
+proj=lcc +lat_1=39.338 +lat_0=39.338 +lon_0=-84 +k_0=1 +x_0=234000 +y_0=702000 +datum=wgs84 +units=m +no_defs
A more visual method is to translate the asc files into xyz files, and load those into QGIS as delimited text:
gdal_translate -of XYZ xlong.asc xlong.xyz
gdal_translate -of XYZ xlat.asc xlat.xyz
using the first lcc proj string with x_0=0 and y_0=0. Then look up the coordinates of lon_0 and lat_0, they are 234000 and 702000; which approves the last mentioned values for x_0 and y_0.