(I know there are many related questions, so please tell me which posts can solve my doubts before you close this question, thank you.)
$1$. $\ce{^+CH2F}$ is very unstable. This is because $\ce{F}$ is very electronegative, pulling the electron density from the already electrophilic carbon (empty $\text{p}$ orbital), thus increasing the positive charge.
For $\ce{CH3CH2+}$: E.N. of $\ce{H}$ = $2.2$, $\ce{C}$ = $2.5$, so the carbon in the methyl group is partially negative - like the $\ce{F}$ in $\ce{^+CH2F}$. To my understanding, the methyl group should be electron-withdrawing instead of donating, thus decreasing its stability, but this is false, why?
Some say that the partially negative carbon can donate some electron to the carbocation to increase stability, if it is true, why can't $\ce{^+CH2F}$ do the same thing?
$2.$ I know hyper-conjugation can form partial orbital overlap ($sp^3$ - $s$($\sigma$) for $\ce{H}$ & empty $p$ orbital in carbocation), thus delocalizing the electron density giving stability. However, the $\ce{C-C}$ $\sigma$ bond is always rotating, so from my view, hyper-conjugation is a bond that is continuously forming and breaking. Therefore, how come this is the predominant reason for carbocation stability?
