Okay guys, first thanks for the responses, appreciated.
I couldn't get to the grub menu however no matter how many times I tried pressing shift or esc, it frustrated me so much I just decided to reinstall Ubuntu so I could check the 'login automatically' box on install and temporarily fix the problem.
So I did that and when choosing the keyboard layout (French) and then entering the users name which used a US keyboard layout I noticed that maybe that had something to do with the password issue, which it did.
I now must enter my password remembering a US keyboard layout to be accurate.
Silly problem but hopefully it helps others in the future.
Just weird that even after choosing a French layout it still used US.
Thanks again guys.
Still don't know what to think about how I am unable to access this GRUB menu though..