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Is the use of ellipsis "..." dismissive or rude?
In business communication, is the use of ellipsis, those three dots "...", intended to be dismissive of the recipient? Can it be construed as rude?
My knee-jerk reaction is to read these as rather disdainful to the point of being outright rude.
As…
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Is a job offer letter with no mention of salary structure legal or correct?
Recently I cleared an interview and I accepted the job offer letter during this I discuss about salary points verbally with Head of HR. When I received offer letter by email, I read the whole letter and at the end they mentioned that the salary…
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Employee is self-centered and affects the team negatively
I manage a satellite office of about 25 people for my company.
This question is about Jane, a new employee. She is young, in her mid 20s.
I was the one who hired her. She seemed very pleasant and friendly, which is the reason I hired her in the…
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Declining welcome lunch invitation at new job due to Ramadan
I am starting a new position next month and I have been kindly invited to a team lunch. I would love to go, but due to the month of Ramadan I will be fasting during the day - no food or drinks allowed. I am not sure if it would be rude to decline…
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Badly designed reimbursement form. What does that say about the company?
I am interviewing for a position at a huge multinational company in Germany. I will have an on-site interview soon. The company sent me a travel expenses reimbursement form. This form was horrendously designed, both technically (.doc format which…
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Is my employer allowed to access my office emails without my knowledge/permission?
I work at one of the county government departments. I was accused of wrong conduct at the workplace, which is obviously made up for retaliation by my branch manager and a district manager, because the same thing happened at other branches by these…
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Young professional co-worker thinks she is not performing enough
I am a young professional with around six months of software engineering experience.
I work with a young girl who is writing her bachelor's thesis in my company.
We get along well, and I always see her sadness whenever she has to face criticism. She…
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Should I tell my workplace that I’m thinking of quitting?
The long and short of it is that my workplace is chaotic and mismanaged. I have made numerous attempts to fix issues but I’m always blocked by someone more senior than me. It’s very stressful and I’m thinking of changing jobs.
Should I tell my…
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Not paid for work, contract promised but not given
My partner recently was offered a job at a corner store which she was delighted about - and I was too, she's been struggling to find work for months now (art graduate, lack of available art jobs). She started working there four weeks ago and things…
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What is appropriate email follow-up etiquette after no response?
Sometimes I send emails and need a response. While not quite as bad as not being able to find denvercoder9, it sometimes happens I get no response.
This presents a problem if the request is something relatively important to my work or my manager…
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Job offer contingent on background check: when to give notice?
I have recently accepted a job offer from an employer (a relatively large one with big HR dept). Basically everything went fine: salary/benefits negotiated, start-date determined, etc. I got the letter, signed it, sent it back, and gave notice to my…
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Should I put volunteer firefighter on my developer resume?
This turned out to be a little more complex than the title suggests.
I have many years of professional programming experience, so several months ago I left my last job to pursue freelance software development. While it is going alright, I decided…
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Can I quit a part time fast food job with a toxic environment without notice and forget I ever did it?
I am currently studying in university full time while working at a fast food joint part time on the weekends.
I really dislike the toxic environment in this place and am leaning strongly towards quitting without notice and excluding the job from my…
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How to resign from company that will fail if I quit
I work for a startup in Ottawa, and have been with the company for just over a year now. The CEO promised me stock options, a massive completion bonus, and a month of paid vacation to offset the massive overtime I put in. I helped bring this company…
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Someone peeled an American flag sticker off of my truck. What do I do?
I started a new job recently and I noticed one day that my American flag sticker had been removed from my truck's window. I am heavily suspicious that it may have occurred while I was at work, and would further indulge in saying I believe it was…
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