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Boss hiring new employee for responsibilities promised to me. How can I deal with this?
Recently my boss told me privately a new coworker would be joining us shorty. In this talk, he revealed to me that the tasks this new coworker would perform would be traveling abroad to meet clients and schedule project-specific technical…
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Informal Chat in Concluding an Interview; is it appropriate to ask about a hobby/interest?
As a senior software developer (based in UK), I help my manager arrange and conduct interviews. My boss used to conduct the interviews himself, but realised that he needed someone more tech-savvy along with him, so it is either myself or the other…
user34587
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How to leave a job for ethical/moral issues without explaining details to a potential employer
I have been working at an Insurance company's IT department for about 3 months now as an IT Project Manager. I really love the company I work for, no matter the "growing pains"; however, I have become privy to some really sensitive issues.
In…
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How to handle anonymous feedback from unknown colleague via manager
I received feedback from my manager that a colleague found a code review comment of mine hurtful. He kept the name confidential.
It's important to me that code review remain a positive and collaborative interaction, so this is deeply concerning to…
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How to prevent an office dog from becoming a problem
I manage a small team of developers. Our intern (who only stays for the summer) asked me whether he can bring his dog to work, since he has trouble finding someone to look after the dog during the day.
I told him that it's ok
if all the other…
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How to handle a boss asking me, an IT admin, to monitor an employee's activity on his computer?
Here's the background of my specific case. The director of a department suspects that an employee is playing video games at work. This problem is aggravated by the fact that the department is understaffed right now, and work is pilling up. I had…
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How to handle people confiding in you as you're leaving
I’ve recently handed in my resignation.
The reasons were varied, and mostly related to myself and my personal preferences, as well as another job offering that was much better than my current job. With time I’ve gotten a better grasp on what I want…
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How to convey I'm innocent when client thinks I'm responsible for missing data?
I have a remote client that I'm contracted for adding new features to their training website. Half way through the project, my client notified me that some data was missing for a two month period (I was contracted during this period.) The client in…
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How to Say "No" to my manager if he asks me to take his exams for him
My manager is a very good manager, both professionally and personally. He has asked me to do some of his work, such as project management, which I am happy to do.
But he has also asked me to use his credentials to take a mandated exam, so that it…
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Coworker doesn't actually work - how to deal with the situation?
We have a colleague who prefers to waste time at work instead of well... working. He's either watching movies, playing online games, or he's always on social sites. This is all on company time, with company's resources.
We (the other people in the…
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Reducing the salary after job offer?
I just accepted a job offer from a small company recently. Shockingly, they just called me to inform me that they reduced my offer by about 10%. Luckily for me, I did not give a leaving notice to my current employer. Is this a reflection on my value…
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Is it okay to leave my original documents with a company who wants them "as insurance"?
I was a temporary employee for three months, and I recently signed a one year contract with the company where I am currently employed at. Now after signing the contract, the company wants my original degree certificate as a safety insurance, just to…
user16810
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Told it's "my responsibility" to find coverage for shifts scheduled during previously-approved vacation time
I have been working at a YMCA pool as a lifeguard for about 6 months now. I am a good employee who has shown up to every shift, follows the rules and has even come in on late notice due to lifeguard shortage on certain days. I don't ask for much…
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Employer wants to change salary after I signed contract
I was offered a position at a job recently and was pretty excited. The offer was above the other offers I received at other companies so I declined the others and accepted this one. After verbally accepting I found out that the amount I was told was…
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How to manage an army of not-really-devs trying to write code for the sake of project management?
We recently adopted a new management methodology that says there are no roles on the team (a "cross-functional" team where "all team members are developers") and everyone should we doing everything so we now have UX designers and QA engineers trying…
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