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Should I do something unethical/possibly illegal if asked by management?
I work in the information security department of a fairly big transportation company. Recently, my team leader added me and my colleague to a WhatsApp group and told us to gather as much information as possible about a couple of members of the…
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Looking for a new job because of relocation - is it okay to tell the real reason?
My husband recently got a new job that he really wanted, but the office is in a different city (more than several hours of travel from where we live now), so he has to relocate. I'm going to start looking for a new job in that city soon, because I…
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Is it rude to tell recruiters I would only change jobs for a better salary?
I am happy with my current job. However, recruiters message me from time to time with career opportunities.
Is it rude to tell the recruiter that given my satisfaction with the current job, I would only take up their offer if there was a…
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How to deal with an incendiary email that was recalled
I recently received a critical email from someone who works at a company I deal with. It made a number of broad and inaccurate criticisms of some work I'd done. Copying in several managers for good measure.
After I read it, I got a mail recall…
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Can I adapt code I wrote for work and release it as open source
Recently I've been working on making some API calls to a 3rd party. I couldn't find anything available to use, so I had to do it from the ground up. Now I'm wondering whether it would be okay for me to rewrite all the platform specific parts and…
user99094
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Interviewing spouse of a fired employee
We are a small organisation (50+ people). Recently an employee was fired. Events leading to her termination escalated quickly and everything happened very fast (within 1-2 days). Obviously, she did not leave on a good note.
She was fired on basis…
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Would it give a bad impression if I left my job because my past projects "keep following me"?
Some context
I'm currently working in a large IT company for over three years. I have worked on five projects and have a new one currently.
Problem
Two of my past projects are finished on paper (one of them about two years ago), but the business…
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How should I ask about work/life balance during an Interview?
I am interviewing for a company later today that has the following listed under Expectations on their career website:
Some flexibility in a 40-hour work week
In addition, their job descriptions all seem to refer to a "work hard/play hard"…
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Is it polite to ask the company to mention the future raise -which we had discussed in interview -in their written offer?
I got an offer from a company who just verbally told me "we will give you this much and after 60 days if you were doing well, we will give you a raise for a higher rate ." which they specified.
So my question is; Is it polite to ask them to mention…
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How to ask a non-programmer not to advise me on programming tasks
I have this problem with an otherwise very respectable colleague, who holds the position of consultant/tester in my team. Due to them being in the company twice the years I've been working here, they have acquired great experience on how things work…
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How to fix a weird relationship at work
I got hired around 6 months ago. But I started to have a difficult relationship with my mentor from the first weeks.
He got interested in me and tried to get close to me and I rejected him for two reasons: first I was married and second, he was my…
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How to answer the question "What do you dislike the most at the workplace?" from an interviewee?
Today, five minutes before the interview, my manager grabbed me and asked me to participate in an interview with a potential candidate for a software developer position. I did the technical part of the interview and the candidate did really well. At…
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Am I Obligated to Enforce Detrimental Company Policy?
Our company has a strict policy that employees need to be in the office by 9:00am or they have to take a PTO day. I personally think this is absurd. (We're all professionals here, and I don't care if somebody rolls in late as long as they get all…
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My employer (client) wants me to work in “ghost” mode
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I'm a freelance software architect/developer and have started working for a known company 3 weeks ago, for at least one year.
They recruited me because they completely failed on a project during 6
months (an hybrid mobile…
Mik378
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As a developer, how can I ask for more freedom when confronted with a tight IT security policy?
I've just joined a new company of around 100 employees, 15 of which are developers (including myself).
A very frustrating aspect of the job is the IT security policy. As developers we need access to the latest and greatest tools to get the job done…
James
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