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Can I tell a prospective employee that everyone in the team is leaving?
Everyone in my team (3 people) is very much dissatisfied with the direction the company is going: The hours are long, the pay mediocre, and the pressure huge. We're all actively looking to change jobs. We're also recruiting a new team member to…
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Software Industry - is this normal to feel lost in first month?
I've been working with software development for nearly 3 years, but always in small companies with 6 employees at most. In Dec 2018, I started working in a big company, and I'm still feeling completely lost.
When I started, no one told me who my…
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Got invited to apply for a job for which I don't qualify. How should I take this?
I contacted someone at a company that I was interested in applying for. He then contacted me back and told me that they would be looking to hire someone at the end of summer and that I should apply then. So, I patiently waited and after some time…
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I think an employer believes I am much more skilled than I actually am. Should I let them know in advance, before accepting the job offer?
I received a job offer as a full-stack developer from a startup company which I found on Indeed. The job posting had seven required skills. 4/7, I knew. 2/7, I didn't know too well, but during the application process, I was asked technical questions…
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What's wrong about being honest about your career plans?
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Until a few weeks ago, I worked for a software company as a software developer. Honestly, I tried to do my best every day. Not only I did what I was supposed to do, but I always tried to improve practices and outcomes.
Even though I was…
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Why is there a stigma in corporations against revealing hourly rates and salaries? Anyone implement "transparent salaries" policy?
I always wondered about the stigma against revealing hourly rates and salaries to coworkers.
I just started a company and we made a "transparent salary" policy where everyone knows exactly how much they make. At any point we encourage our employees…
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Some coworkers are committing to work overtime for a 1% bonus. How can I best opt out of this?
I'm part of a massive death march project that really seems unlikely to be finished in shorter than six months. The company has announced a 1% bonus for everyone if this particular project is completed by the end of the year. Most of the people in…
user137408
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Bad performance review despite objective successes and praises
I started a job 8 months ago. The person who did it before was let go for performance issues. Before they chose me they spent 6 months looking for someone (while the previous guy was still there).
I found a total chaos - this was recognized by my…
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My management blocked my internal transfer, but now I have an outside offer. Should I tell them?
I've been working as a manufacturing engineer at a plant in a Dow 30 corporation for 2 years. When I joined I was told I can move around the company after 2 years. I realized I'm not growing in my role and I applied for an internal role as a data…
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Employer might be giving me a job offer by mistake
I'm in a somewhat unusual situation, and not sure what I should do.
Last week, I had an interview for a mid/upper-level manager. I'm very unqualified for this position (I don't have any management experience, I haven't been in the industry all that…
Jamie F
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I'm leaving a toxic work environment, my boss won't stop pressuring me to stay. How should I handle this?
I work at a small company - there are fewer than 5 employees and my boss is actually the president and owner. I put my two weeks notice in yesterday. I made this decision as my work environment has been so toxic that it's taken a toll on my physical…
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How do I stop my colleague trying to convince me that I'm trans?
I'm a female software engineer at a medium sized startup in the USA and I've always been a bit masculine[1]. It's never really bothered me.
I recently started working on a new project with another team in the company. I got to know one of the…
anon
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Manager wants to hire me; HR does not. How to proceed?
I had a talk with the manager of a technical department at a big sized company I've been doing some work with as a consultant. She told me they are looking for technical people and asked if I'd like to work with them at a specific technical…
user105630
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Coworker submitted my code as his own
A co-worker, Bob, and I have been working on a project that was supposed to be completed together. Due to his lack of time management, he has been stuck on a bug for over a month. Today, Bob merged some code into our master branch.
The issue is, the…
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I snapped at a co-worker, apologized, but now HR wants me to meet with her
I lost my cool after a co-worker sent an email calling out IT for not doing their job (totally unfounded, btw). When I went to investigate the issue, she confronted me and I snapped at her briefly. She contacted HR and I apologized in writing,…
Company Computer Guy
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