Dangerous procrastination

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I have always done things that appealed to me in the moment and are not worth anything in the longer run. I have spent when I am disappointed with myself. Lied and convinced myself into falling for the same traps.

I want to be so perfect in technical competence that I end up being little more than useful at work. I prefer sensationalism to be felt worthy.

I would like someone not to instruct me, but explain me. I do not know when I will tap into my potential, but I have grown weary of my habits. So can anyone say anything?

user95289

Posted 2015-10-19T17:31:27.940

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Question was closed 2015-10-22T08:30:24.910

1Sorry, you're question is too broad. So can anyone say anything? is hardly an answerable question, especially since you give only summations and interpretations in your text.Jan Doggen 2015-10-19T18:34:14.720

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Then you are in the right place!

And that's half your merit (for finding it out and speaking out), and half this community's, for all the similar worries and useful experiences shared, and all the practical help brought up here so generously.

Now, you could:

  1. read the similar posts suggested in comments above,

  2. focus in one and only one situation you want to improve and you can measure your progress on (see other posts),

  3. before your question is closed for too broad, think about whether there's something in your personal situation that needs a specific push forward and can be helpful for others.

You're not alone and you're one step ahead of others who haven't even asked, but who can benefit from you asking. So try to see what it is that you can bring up here.

Let me ask you: why did you say "dangerous"?

Suggestion to find out your specialties: look deeply at what you love doing.

Congrats on landing here. It's a nice place. Well done. Now what's next? Let us know.

Giuseppe

Posted 2015-10-19T17:31:27.940

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